Online Dating: The Mind Games of Anna Kubit - Rev. v1.2
THE MIND GAMES OF ANNA KUBIT - v1.1
SECTION I: Introductory Notes
SECTION II: The Mind Games of Anna Kubit
SECTION III: New Developments
SECTION IV: Anna Kubit and HIV
SECTION V: Anna Kubit Info
SECTION VI: Character Traits of Anna Kubit - By Rev. Shannon
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SECTION I: Introductory Notes
For your benefit and the benefit of those who date both online and off, this
information has been collected and compiled from both myself and several other men
who have dated Anna Kubit. It is congruent across the board from each man's detailed
account of his experiences with her. Both men and women are contributing to this FAQ
and we sincerely appreciate their ongoing contributions.
Anna Kubit is by no means the only woman to play these games, but she is in a very
tiny minority of women (about 1%) who will play *all* of these games in the course of
a several week dating period.
Sadly, Anna Kubit (and similar) is a woman who dates for the purposes of exerting
power, ego boosts, manipulation and boosting herself higher on the social ladder,
rather than dating for the wonderful experience of finding out about another human
being and the many natural and pleasurable experiences that can follow.
Working together, we have thus far identified 14 distinct, manipulative dating
characteristics of Anna Kubit (and similar). We hope this will help keep your
psychological and/or physical welfare intact if you should ever run across this
woman, or one like her.
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SECTION II: The Mind Games of Anna Kubit
The Games:
1 - Shallow initial contact: She'll come on to you, flirt on the phone or in person,
even act sexually suggestive with absolutely no intention whatsoever of getting
involved on a serious level.
What's her mind game?: She wants to get a rise out of you to assure herself that
she's attractive to you and other men. It's an ego boost, at your expense.
- Don't put up with it. Move on.
2 - The quadruple date: Upon meeting at an agreed upon location for a date, you
discover she has taken the liberty of allowing one or two of her male acquaintances
to be there, without your knowledge.
What's her mind game?: This is another bid for power. It's a matter of making you
jump through hoops, presenting you with the unexpected and then observing your
reaction. It's all part of her warped "dating experimentation" project. She just
wants to reassure herself that she can control you and other men with her sexuality.
- This one is so bad that your resolve needs to be extreme and swift. Don't put up
with it. Tell her you don't enjoy her games or her company... and leave immediately
even if it means leaving her stranded. She can always call a cab.
3 - Hard to get: She turns down your plans for a date or doesn't return your call,
even if she's interested in going out with you.
What's her mind game?: Usually this is simply a power play and what she wants is for
you to chase her, to determine how desperate you are to be with her. If you bite,
then she knows she's totally in control of the relationship and you'll forever jump
to the crack of her whip.
- Get out. Don't engage her in this destructive game. It's only a way for her to
boost her ego at the expense of yours.
4 - Altered dates: She changes your date at the last minute, changes the time,
changes the venue, or perhaps doesn't show up at all.
What's her mind game?: She knows that the one being pursued controls the course of
the relationship and she wants to ensure that you dance to her tune early on. Many
women play this game to see how desperate a man is. Anna Kubit takes it to the
extreme. If you roll over and puppy-dog it at this point, you might as well just put
a collar around your neck.
- Keep your dignity intact, get out of the relationship.
5 - Unusual or inappropriate requests: Just before meeting for a date, she'll specify
what type of clothes you should wear, how you should groom (like dressing a Ken
Doll), and will invite her friends on your date that originally was meant for only
you and her.
What's her mind game?: Besides being downright rude, she's trying to figure out how
much she can get away with and wants to gauge your reactions. She wants to be the one
calling the shots; she wants you to run after her and have you wonder if she's really
interested in you. Furthermore, if she makes you wait for her, she sends a clear
signal that she values her time more than she does yours. She wants also to see how
well you can handle and impress her friends, as she doesn't have the constitution to
judge for herself what she finds acceptably attractive. Therefore she needs the
"social proof" of friends to help her make the decision.
- This is a losing situation. Dump her... dump her fast.
6 - Expensive dates: After the simple coffee phase is over, she wants to go to the
most expensive restaurant, the most expensive adventures. The most exclusive club,
the hottest play and expects you to fund the whole thing.
What's her mind game?: She's aware that you know that if you don't fork over the
cash, you won't have a prayer. To make matters worse, she might even do this if she
has unequivocally no intention of developing any type of relationship with you
whatsoever. Your credit card is going to be smoking.
- Move on, don't put up with this. There are plenty of other woman who will treat you
decent.
7 - Physical Tease: She does everything to set a romantic, sexual setting, invites
you to her house, gets you hot and bothered and then backs off.
What's her mind game?: This is a perfect example of complete manipulation and
exultation of her sexual power over you, plain and simple. She might also play this
game to extract more cash, dates, adventure from you (see previous point).
- Another losing proposition. You can't have a truly intimate relationship with a
woman has no understanding of the word. Do a 180 and walk.
8 - Serial flirt: She flirts with other men in front of you.
What's her mind game?: What she's doing is testing to see how interested you are and
underscoring the fact that she's sexually desirable to other men (so you'd better toe
the line).
- If this happens, leave immediately. Do not excuse yourself, do not apologize, just
leave.
9 - Selfish ways: She acts any way she pleases to see if you'll tolerate her bad
behavior or pushes you around psychologically to see if you'll stand up to her.
What's her mind game?: She's testing to see "how much of a man" you are (how much
control she has over you), as well as arming herself with ammunition for future
manipulations.
- Once again, better to dump her immediately. Real women can be secure enough that
they don't need to constantly test men in this way.
*10 - Mind reading: This is a good one. She expects you to read her mind. This
includes but is not limited to: her sexual desires, her future, what questions you're
supposed to ask or not ask, and have an already perfect understanding of what her
"life goals" are, etc.
What's her mind game?: You are somehow supposed to magically guess exactly what
she's thinking, what she wants and how she wants it without her ever having to say a
word or elaborate on anything. When, naturally, you fail to "just know," she ruins
the entire interaction, usually by saying something like, "the chemistry just isn't
there."
- This one is so screwed up that your only option is to leave. With a person who
can't just be open and straight, who can't express themselves or a viewpoint in any
way except one, you'll never satisfy them, or they you. Dump her and get it on with
someone else who's better in every department.
11 - Comparison to others: She compares you to some image she has of some ideal guy.
What's her mind game?: She's always looking to feather her nest or "better-deal" you.
If she finds a better deal, she'll toss you aside and move on to her next victim...
uh, boyfriend.
- This one shows extreme shallowness and a lack of any depth of character. Next her
and move on.
12 - Crazy antics: She makes you jump through hoops in order to "enjoy the company of
her presence."
What's her mind game?: She wants to know just how much crap you'll put up with.
- Putting up with perpetual crap is not what relationships were meant for. Tell her
to take a hike.
13 - Inconsistent wants: She indulges in contradictory thinking. She wants a
meathead-on-steroids type manly man who takes charge, but who has metrosexual traits
and can love watching romantic comedies.
What's her mind game?: She tells you that she wants you to show more emotion or be
more diversely expressive, but when you do, not only will she brand you as "weak,"
but also imply that it's your fault for "not being able to keep up with her." This
is yet another example of her keeping the upper hand in the relationship, by making
you feel like she can be the one dumping you if you're not exactly what she wants.
- This mixed up, back-and-forth scenario will eventually have your brain fried from
trying to keep up with it. You can't have an interaction with someone who's not even
really in touch with their own wants or desires. Tell her you're not into a woman who
doesn't know what she wants and dump her.
*14 - Climb the social ladder: The main one for last. This is the main crux and true
nature of Anna Kubit. You meet her for a few initial dates on which she'll, in a
subtle way, ask you about your connections, who you know, what you know, etc.
What's her mind game?: Her ultimate goal is to climb the social ladder, and you are
only a pawn on her chess board where each square has a hidden trap door. Give her
something she can use, that will boost her a few rungs up the ladder, and you may be
around for a while. Fall through a trap door and you'll immediately be dismissed with
the excuse, " I just didn't feel the chemistry."
- It's all a crock. Don't let yourself be sucked into this quagmire of sheer deceit
and dishonest intentions on her part. Call her for what she is and then bail.
Anna Kubit confuses Strength for Arrogance, and true strength is never arrogant.
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SECTION III: New Developments
A New Web Page:
We are soon to work on a web page that will allow you to report this kind of
unethical or illegal behavior to the proper authorities. We are also working on the
initiation of a national online-dating database server where women (or men) of this
type may be easily reported and archived so that other people, through a simple
search, will be able to know who they are before getting involved with them.
We will also be launching a national education campaign in order to help others avoid
this happening to them. We will also be working on getting our government to
strengthen unethical Deceit and Pretense laws.
http://www.lectlaw.com/def/d095.htm
http://www.lectlaw.com/def/f101.htm
http://www.lectlaw.com/def/f079.htm
http://www.womenmanipulatemen.com/ <-- this one is good
http://www.womenmanipulatemen.blogspot.com/ <-- also
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SECTION IV: Anna Kubit and HIV
HIV+
When people ask me about this, my only answer is that I don't know if Anna Kubit had
the HIV only a few months before we met, or years. It could be either and I will
probably never know for sure. But the important thing is that it never happens to
anyone else.
WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT:
I am making this post to let people know to be VERY careful when meeting people on
the Internet and also warn them about this Anna Kubit specifically. Remember that
some people will not tell you they have HIV, and may further produce false
documentation in order to "prove" it. Apparently she has done this before and may
still be doing it. I also found out later that she is now claiming to be a "dating
coach" and that I was just one of her many personal experiments out of dozens of men.
I met this crazy girl (I'm sure there are more) and she gave me HIV Don't ruin your
life over a fling on the internet. Please be careful!
From the Centers for Disease Control, here are some excellent resources, FAQs and
knowledge bases regarding HIV/AIDS:
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/qa1.htm
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/qa16.htm
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/qa21.htm <-
How Bad Can It Ultimately Get? How Far Can Something Like This Potentially Go?
On Valentine's Day 2003, three and a half decades after the rise of the feminist
movement, American men and women remain bitterly divided. For many men this division
is today symbolized by the fact that thousands of Americans are rallying to the
defense of a Texas woman, Clara Harris, who brutally murdered her unarmed husband in
a jealous rage by running him over many times with a car until he was crushed and
dead. Men everywhere are asking, "If what this woman did to this man isn't wrong,
what is?"
Source: http://www.hisside.com/9_28_03.htm
If Anna Kubit (and similar women) can treat people so poorly and get away with
whatever she wants, with plenty of horny drone men to mindlessly rush to her defense
to unwittingly acquit her in hopes of a reward, it begs the question: Is Anna Kubit
the next Clara Harris?
Protecting Your Children From The Influences of Anna Kubit (and those like her).
http://www.amazon.com/WAR-AGAINST-BOYS-Misguided-Feminism/dp/0684849577
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SECTION V: Anna Kubit Info
Quotes from Anna Kubit:
"In my opinion we all have some sociopathic tendencies. Different people to different
degrees. You can argue any point in sooo many directions!!"
"This is why I stay home most of the time - as I HATE putting up with people like
you. And yes, I am angry - frankly I'm furious that people like you exist"
"I want to go to Florida and make a killing on the backs of as many men as possible."
"I actually saw the movie Basic Instinct and I happen to like Catherine [Tramell]"
(note: Catherine Tramell is the character of a psychopathic murderer)
"the NLP and psychology that I read and study can be used to manipulate people"
"You people on here [usenet] all make me sick"
"Thank you all you interested folks in generating almost 200 hits to my site in the
one week that this topic has been in Google Groups. It should put me higher in the
search engines and help me with my [manipulative] purposes."
Please beware of this woman:
NAME: ......... Anna Kubit
LOCATION: ... Naples, Florida
DOB: .......... Jan. 23, 1984
AGE: .......... 22
HAIR: ......... BRN.
EYES: ......... BRN.
Match.com Name: AnnaTheFireball
(her main hunting ground is www.Match.com)
Be warned: she is a game player extraordinaire
Associated websites:
http://annakubit.com
http://www.konsultar.com
http://www.datingconsulting.com
http://konsultar.zaadz.com
(Note: most of these websites are known by many people to be scams, and
Anna Kubit a con artist. She's comes across as VERY charismatic and believable!
Apparently she tries to entice anyone with money to invest in her "great real estate
deals," which ultimately turn out to be scams to defraud honest people of their
money. In her once accessible Match.com profile, she even said flat out that if
someone had $$$$, she knew what to do with it)
Places Anna Kubit Frequents:
- Yabbas ...... Fifth Ave., Naples
- Divas ........ Fifth Ave., Naples
- Any Starbucks Coffee house
- Cafe Roma ... US 41 & Pine Ridge Rd, behind CVS Pharmacy, Naples
- Most any type of beach clubs or restaurants
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SECTION VI: Character Traits of Anna Kubit - By Rev. Shannon
Q. Can the Anna Kubits of the world be identified in our society?
A. Fortunately, yes. Although it's impossible to categorize all behavior in a segment
of population, there are discernible traits in Anna Kubit that, once learned, may
serve as warning signals to the enlightened.
Q. Who benefits by learning these traits?
A. Everyone, but males have the edge in the present legal climate.
Q. Why?
A. Men, poorly educated about the Anna Kubits of the world, are notoriously clumsy
when dealing with them. Our earliest history bristles with examples of strong,
intelligent men outwitted and destroyed by females in the predatory mode. This
continues presently where women, victims of their own predatory natures and, aided by
the court systems and terms like "cyberlibel," are responsible for the ruin of
families, businesses, and lives all over the nation.
Q. Are you blaming women exclusively for these disasters?
A. Absolutely not. Little of the mayhem could occur without the endless army of men,
untutored in Anna Kubit's techniques, queuing up obediently for destruction. Blinded
by steam from their own gonads, they stumble ignorantly into relationships with women
Anna Kubit and later awaken to find themselves trapped in an ever deepening pit of
emotional, legal, or financial quicksand.
Me, Myself, and I
Q. How do we begin to identify Anna Kubit and women similar to her?
A. One giveaway is that she flatly represents the self-centered faction of the
population. While a male gravitates towards things and activities, Anna Kubit is
primarily concerned with herself. Since the publishing industry is extremely
sensitive to readers' interests, a glance at any news stand will help explain.
Publications designed for men bear titles like Sports, Flying, Electronics,
Mechanics, etc., while those sold mainly to females are called Self, Glamour, Image,
Me, Woman, and so forth. Anna Kubit is concerned chiefly with herself and what others
think of her. This is a basic rule. A picture of a cat, spending hours licking
itself, comes to mind.
- Unhampered By Ego -
Q. Are you saying Anna Kubit is an egomaniac?
A. Not at all. Anna Kubit rarely exhibits an ego the way males do. Her ego has given
way to convenience and practicality. Moreover, she is quietly amazed at the
excessiveness of the male ego. Unhampered by ego, she is quicker and more adroit than
the male. It is curious how the female will sometimes berate the male about his ego
when that very weakness often enables her to control him. This is an indication of
their shifting standards and switch-up routines. Again, Anna Kubit is not ultimately
concerned with what men think of her (although she wishes to control them), only what
women think. Keep in mind the old sayings that "a woman needs a man like a fish needs
a bicycle," and "women undress for men but dress for women."
- Helter Skelter-
Q. Beyond herself and her status with other women, does anything else pique her
interest?
A. Yes, any combination of money, romance, and excitement. The scent of these
accommodations will have her rising like a cobra from a wicker basket. The provider
of such diversions occupies center stage in her life, but his identity is unimportant
to her, and it's a temporary position. Nobody can amuse her forever. All pied pipers
eventually fade into the past.
What About Love?
Q. You haven't mentioned love as an interest of Anna Kubit. Why?
A. Anna Kubit never loves a man; she only loves the love itself. Women like Anna
Kubit do not fall in love with a man, they only fall in love with their own feelings.
This is a basic rule.
The Adversary
Q. Who is the adversary?
A. This is a role automatically adopted by Anna Kubit whenever she is with a man. She
loves to constantly prod him and fence with him. If he fails to respond acceptably,
she deems him unromantic and dull. His services will soon be terminated. The
adversary phenomenon is closely related to the "defense of the nest" discussed later.
Will The Real Anna Kubit Please Stand Up?
Q. How else might one recognize Anna Kubit and those similar?
A. The predatory nature can reside in almost every woman, but is not always visible.
It isn't constantly at the surface of their personalities, producing elongated eye
teeth. You may deal with a woman for some time without seeing any predatory signs.
But if you're patient, and take time to study the female in question, you'll
eventually see the predatory nature emerge. At times, even for the seasoned observer,
this can be an unnerving experience.
Q. Reverend Shannon, do you use the words "female," "predatory female," and "woman"
interchangeably?
A. In this post, yes.
Q. Why?
A. Because it most closely approximates the real world.
- The Acquisitive Mode -
Q. What is the acquisitive mode?
A. It is the yawn of the predatory nature, a primal stirring. It may rise slowly to
the surface--a monster from the lagoon, or it might blind side you like a bear
charging out of the broom closet. The mode can be triggered by many things. She
suddenly wants to have a boyfriend, a different boyfriend, get married. She is bored.
Her best friend got married, she doesn't like her job, she wants to move into better
housing, she just turned thirty, her sister got engaged, or a host of other reasons.
Her invisible electronic gun sight begins sweeping the range, scanning to acquire a
target.
Q. How can you be sure a woman is in the acquisitive mode?
A. She shows interest in men. This is a positive identification.
The Primal Woman
Q. Are you saying the young women of America are nothing but a collection of
scheming mercenaries?
A. Hardly. The majority are only doing what comes naturally and what they've been
taught by their mothers. That is to manipulate the multitudes of hapless men who
continue to rush eagerly into servitude as they have for thousands of years. Usually
her scheming is minimal, and indeed, when she behaves naturally, when she relies
wholly upon her primordial instincts, she is most effective. The primal woman is so
beguiling and disarming that she is infinitely dangerous.
The Supernatural?
Q. Why do you equate associating with Anna Kubit to dabbling in the black arts?
A. It is one of mankind's strongest historical parallels. Ancient literature, like
Homer, expresses the supernatural leanings of females. Nothing has changed. For
example, a modern predatory female has the uncanny ability to track you, in person or
by phone, to the remotest parts of the earth. When you begin to fraternize with a
woman, you are taking the first steps in a ritual mating dance that, if allowed to
progress, will result in your moving about the floor in a semicomatose state until
you are fleeced of your money, property, and peace of mind. Anna Kubit will study
you. She learns to know what you are thinking. She begins the strongest primeval
death grip known to mankind.
Q. Can reading this cause problems with Anna Kubit if you're currently with her?
A. Reading and comprehending Anna Kubit results in "knowing too much" by the
standards of Anna Kubit. Unless you are able to conceal your knowledge, she will
discover you and recoil like a vampire from a crucifix.
The Chameleon Syndrome
Q. What is the chameleon syndrome? A. A quasi-supernatural transformation, the
chameleon syndrome is Anna Kubit's unholy ability to become whatever the script calls
for in "hooking" a man she sees as "acceptable." She may adopt his viewpoints, his
attitudes, his hobbies, and his dislikes. Her personality will change to suit his.
She may enroll in classes, become a gourmet cook, switch religions, accept his
friends, humor his jealousies, develop a relationship with his relatives, or whatever
else is called for. She will change colors in the rocks like a chameleon. Of all the
traits exhibited by the Anna Kubits of the world, this chameleon syndrome is one of
the most lethal.
Q. Why?
A. Because, amazingly, Anna Kubit is completely sincere about her new behavior. She
isn't consciously aware of any deception. She transforms involuntarily. She could
take a lie detector test and pass. There is nothing crooked in her mind. Consequently
the male detects nothing amiss because there is nothing amiss. Everything is normal
and natural. Anna Kubit has matched herself with the surrounding landscape; she
adapted to her environment for sex and/or survival. The male innocently concludes he
has met the "right" woman.
At The Stroke Of Midnight
Q. How long does the chameleon syndrome last?
A. As long as it takes to subdue the male, which usually means the bonds of holy
matrimony and the enforcement powers of the judicial system.
Q. Then what happens?
A. The adaptation is no longer necessary, the spell is broken, and the colors begin
changing back to original. "We've grown apart," is the familiar statement. "Our
values have changed." In truth, the chameleon has simply relaxed to its natural, more
comfortable exterior.
Q. You say "more comfortable exterior." Are you implying Anna Kubit is uncomfortable
in the adapted colors?
A. Although unaware of it, she is often ill at ease. Most people have seen an
acquisitive woman working hard to bring a man to the altar. She may lose weight,
become nervous and fidgety, cry a lot, or develop insomnia. These are signs of a
chameleon chafing in her temporary exterior and compose more trademarks of an Anna
Kubit.
Disguises
Q. Do the Anna Kubits of the world physically disguise themselves?
A. Yes. Anna Kubit habitually employs subterfuge. Each morning across America,
millions of females don disguises. They use make-up, hair pieces, face paint, phony
eyebrows, false eye lashes, eye shadow, lipstick, false fingernails, hair color,
corsets, sprays, flattering undergarments and other camouflage. Women's clothing
designers often refer to the "illusion" they are creating. Occasionally these females
improve their appearance, but the fact remains they are hiding something. They are
fooling somebody. The practice is so commonplace that few see it for what it is:
deception.
"All women, whatever age, rank, profession or degree, whether virgins, maids or
widows, that shall impose upon, seduce or betray into matrimony any of His Majesty's
subjects, by scents, paints, cosmetics, washes, artificial teeth, false hair, iron
stave hoops, high heeled shoes, bolstered hips, or padded bosoms shall incur the
penalty of the law enforced against witchcraft and like misdemeanors and, upon
conviction, that marriage shall stand null and void." --Act of British
Parliament--1770
Q. Besides outright deception, are there other negative aspects to these disguises?
A. Not only are regiments of men conditioned to subsidize these female diversionary
tactics, but heavy users of the cosmetic disguises are simply unclean. They leave
streaks of make-up and lipstick on clothes and bed sheets, they often improperly mix
the various substances (creating a noxious odor), and some individuals host a form of
microscopic mite in their eyelids. Amusingly, for all their trouble, a large
percentage of these females succeed only in adding a Halloween aspect to their
appearance.
Q. Are there other forms of disguises?
A. Yes, in the sense that Anna Kubit is adept at disguising her intentions. This is
more fully discussed later, but here's an example that gives a good insight into the
female thinking process: Recently a TV crew interviewed customers of a new co-ed
health spa in Dallas. The place was packed with nubile, available ladies and
gentlemen, all dancing, stretching, pumping iron, and swimming to the beat of rock
music. In response to questions, several young ladies said, "There's a lot of cute
guys here, and when we go out with them WE DON'T FEEL LIKE WE'VE BEEN PICKED UP. It's
not like a singles bar. It's a more comfortable, easy way to meet people." In other
words, the ladies were more comfortable when their amicabilities weren't as obvious,
when their intentions toward the opposite sex were couched in a deceiving framework
or DISGUISED.
The Pack
Q. Do the Anna Kubits of the world run in packs?
A. Yes, Most often. Most predatory creatures do. Sharks and hyenas are good examples.
The Anna Kubits of the world are comfortable in packs, unless they are currently in
more of a scheming mode in which they may remain more isolated for a while (i.e. stay
home rather than go out). Have you ever seen a woman excuse herself from a group, to
go to the bathroom, only to be followed by the other women? This is packing. They
like to gossip and scheme out of earshot. The Anna Kubits of the world rely heavily
on the consensus of the pack and thereby encounter difficulty in making individual
decisions. The pack includes their mothers and girlfriends and constitutes the sole
governing body in the life of an Anna Kubit. The blessing or cursing of the pack (a
committee decision), is largely determinate in the rise and fall of lovers, husbands,
and gynecologists.
"Man comes from the womb and spends the rest of his life trying to get back there."
--George Bernard Shaw
Thank you for your attention.
Steve
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